Thursday, March 24, 2005

Parents: Fools, in Love...with us

yeah! we love our parents, but you know we have our own lives too, our dreams n our aspirations. n they dont understand.
ties breaking n family matters no more. their love thier support, all was for granted. they were obliged to do that. we used them n left them for good, to go about our own lives.
we disown the love weve got n run after the one we dont have.
values of love dont change, then how come we call one love n treat the other like nothing. are we blind of love now? or have we redifined it as it suits us?
..... "u know dad i love you!"...( yeah sure thats why i cant be there for you now. dont you get it? i dont need you any more.)
....." mom your the best!" ( but i better be out there looking for babes. so sorry im better off with my sweet-hearts, now.)
But these silly parents. still dont get it. still they feed us, when find us hungry. still, support us when we get weak. still cheer us, when we get low.
they must be madly in love with us.
what kind of love do they have for us? they should have left us on the streats, when we were born, n had gone about thier lives. dint my mom had her dreams. why did she forgot herself n pampered me? why is she so helpless? why is she so obliged to love me? is she really?
why should my mom n dad waste thier hard earned wealth on me, when they know im not gonna return that, even? why do i think my dad has to pay my bills or help me get started with my life, when im willing to do nothing for him?
children are like no profit-no return investment, be it an emotional one or a material investment, they r no good for nothing.
love begets love, but in our parents case this rule is not applicable, consider them unlucky, cause of us. poor souls! waste thier lives over nothing, called love.
some kids think parents have thier intrest in this material investment, that they do it for return. wow, seems like parents are fools again. they better had spend thier money in a stock market shares then spending on us. at least they wouldv gotten better returns. or they better had bought a puppy with thier money, at least he woudve given them some love.
.....its like, they love us and get a slap on the face for that.
in relations, in love, the profit-return is just love, i.e, simply being there for n caring for someone. and when they need it, lending them an ear, a shoulder, a heart.
the rules of love are the same, whether its your love affair or your realation with your parents.
the only favour and return for love is love itself.
what else can you give the ones who brought you in to this world n tenderly raised you from a helpless piece of meat in to a strong young man. accept it or not, you owe them your life. and if youll try to get even with them, youll run short of a life.
just be there for them, in happiness n in sorrow. pay them thier share of love... thats the least you could do.

4 comments:

The Lil fairy & her angel friends said...

hmm..u know wat.. love is selfless yet too mean....

Muhammad Salman Kasbati said...

Well written :)

I also wrote somewhat similar stuph with different words..

Muhammad Salman Kasbati said...
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flick said...

salman
yeah I read it, its so true, anyways thanx for the complement :)